Well, today I turn 25 and I´m on my way to buy birthday cake supplies (carrots and cuajada for the frosting). While I tried to keep my birthday a secret in my community, it somehow became general public knowledge and I have been convinced to celebrate by baking my own cake. It should be fun, but I was hoping to spend a quiet evening by myself.
With my quarter century mark on the horizon for the last couple weeks, I have been thinking frequently about age here and how different the lived experience of people in my same age group is here than in the States. Most 25 year old males in my community have children, and have not finished high school. (On a side note, as a result of some kinship charts I have been working on, I have found out that two children I formerly believed were siblings are actually half-siblings and cousins at the same time having been fathered by the same man but born to two sisters.) They are generally landless and work in the fields of others, earning of 50 cordobas ($2.50) for a full day when work is avaliable. This small income is often the only stream of money for a household, which is even more trying in the dry season (that is to say now) when a day´s work is difficult to find. Many of the young men in my community have the hopes of going to work in the States some day to earn what little money they can to send home to their families. Those living here with relatives in the states enjoy a markedly higher standard of living and security of life than others. Rather than making the dangerous and costly journey to the States, many instead opt to try their chances seeking work in Managua, where the monthly income for unskilled labor can be as much as 2500 cordobas ($125). In another indicator of the troubles of the Nicaraguan economy, Nicaragua sends a very large number of workers to neighboring Central American countries such as Costa Rica, where as many as 500,000 Nicaraguans have illegally immigrated to work. Life is hard for the young adults in my community, and at times I have a hard time relating to their experience. However, I am finally making some friends my age and making an effort to learn from them. Now I just have to wait for the rains when they´ll come home to work.
Anyways, I must be on my way. Thank you for your help with the seeds. Until next time, que le vaya bien.
Monday, April 19, 2010
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Happy Birthday. Matty tried to convince me to bake a cake for you in absentia. I will bake one when you are home, we can celebrate our birthdays together since they will both be significant. Love Mama
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday Kyle! I'll have a Guinness(Irish for Tona) in your honor. Take care. Love, Dad.
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday. Miss you. Hope your cake was enjoyed by all. Yes there is a big difference in the countries. I'm sure your exprience witll be remember all you Life. Glad to help with the seeds. Hope you got them all. Love Grandma Patsy.
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday, sorry it's a day late, but my original from yesterday didn't go through. I am learning how to send you a comment, because of Patsy! Good one huh? I have enjoyed your blog so much and really look forward to new ones. Actually I can see a book. Your ability to draw a reader in with the sense of being there with you is wonderful. I miss not having a group birthday, Anna will be with Sam and Dave in NY, and Warren and I will be with grandpa in Dallas. AA has a new brewey that we will have to visit when you get home, really good beers and great food. Keep up the good work, you are a great role model. Love you, AuntieD
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday man. We're working on the seeds, some are on the way. Also, if there is anything else you need that will fit in the package let me know. Keep on rockin it, peace out.
ReplyDelete-Dave
Happy quarter-century, may you have several more! Spring is doing its magic here--the weeds are blossoming as we breathe. I saw Claudia Schmidt perform last night. She was her usual charming self. She did a song featuring the line "that which doesn't kill you will make you wish you were dead." I guess she was in a negative mood the day she wrote that one. She said she'd be at Hiawatha this summer. Take care.
ReplyDeleteLove, Janice